How to Keep School-Age Kids Engaged Over The Summer (While Still Giving Them A Break)

Summer vacation is almost here! For parents, it means a break from carpools and packing school lunches. But it also means scheduling summer camps and finding engaging activities for our kiddos. For kids, it’s time to rest and recharge, but we don’t want them sitting on the couch watching TV or playing video games all day. How do we find enriching activities while still letting kids have fun? We want them to keep learning and avoid the summer slide while giving them a break. It’s possible, and the secret is combining structure with flexibility.

Why Is Summer Engagement So Important?

Many of today’s parents had laissez-faire summers as kids – full of cartoons, bike rides and neighborhood antics. Things are different in the 21st century as we focus on keeping kids engaged and prepared for the next school year. Keeping little minds active is important, but we don’t want to go overboard and remove all the fun.

• Preventing the “summer slide” is a priority for parents. A recent study of 3rd to 5th graders showed that students lost up to 20 percent of reading and 27 percent of math skills over the summer. Research also shows that younger children and those from lower-income families are at higher risk. Keeping your kids mentally active helps them transition back to school more easily.
• We also want to support our kids’ social and emotional health over the summer. Offering structured activities can foster social connection and emotional balance. And while a bit of boredom can be a good thing, too much downtime can lead to behavioral issues. On the other hand, we want to allow them free time for creativity and rest. Finding the right balance between structured and unstructured time is key.

What Are Some Tips For Keeping Kids Engaged Over The Summer?

• Finding educational activities that don’t feel like school is an excellent place to start. One essential component is letting kids read what they want. Giving them choices brings the pleasure back to reading. You can also participate in school and library summer reading programs and create family programs with prizes. Giving kids creative writing assignments can help them tap into their creativity while using vital reading and writing skills. “Smart play” is another winning strategy. Find games and puzzles that allow kids to brush up on math and reading skills. You can do science experiments at home, find coding sites, and educational apps.
• Getting outside is another excellent way to keep kids mentally and physically engaged. You can try nature scavenger hunts at a local park with a list of plants, animals and landmarks. Encourage your children to explore and make note of what they observe. Sports and recreation activities offer physical activity and opportunities for social interaction. Ideas include recreational sports leagues, camps, and summer swim teams. Family hikes and bike rides also provide exercise and bonding. Visit community pools or your neighborhood splash pads for water play and socialization.
• Getting creative helps keep your kids engaged while providing opportunities for meaningful family time. You can create a scrapbook or photo album and come up with painting, drawing, and DIY projects. Learn a new instrument (ukuleles are a great starter instrument!) or dance routine, and hold a talent show with family or friends. Cooking and baking are also terrific ways to get creative. Make simple, kid-friendly recipes together and host make-your-own-pizza nights or “cake wars” contests.
• Social activities and community involvement can also help kids stay engaged and motivated. Try day camps focused on sports, arts, or STEM activities. For older kids, sleepaway camp can build independence and social skills. You can also organize playdates (they don’t have to be in your home if that’s overwhelming or stressful) or start a neighborhood book club or game night. Community service is another excellent way to stay active and have fun while teaching kids about helping others. You can volunteer as a family for park cleanups or collect donations for a local food bank.
• Finally, don’t forget that summer is still about fun. Kids need time to recharge after a busy school year. Bring on the unstructured play, creativity and rest. You don’t need to plan or manage every minute.

How Can I Balance Structure And Flexibility Over Summer Break?

We don’t want to deprive kids of needed downtime by pushing academics too hard or overscheduling. Here are a few tips for finding balance this summer:

• Create a loose daily schedule that balances active and quiet time and leaves room for spontaneity.
• Give your kids input and let them choose activities based on their interests. Offer free choice time to help them pursue their passions and develop independence.
• Avoid overscheduling to leave room for rest and spontaneity. Don’t resist last-minute changes and inspiration.

Are you excited for summer but a little overwhelmed at over two months of unstructured time to fill? It’s completely normal. Summer is a joy, but can also be stressful for parents and kids alike. At Loudoun Pediatric Associates, we understand that summer vacation is a welcome break, but taking kids out of their routine isn’t always easy. Take a deep breath and remember that balance is everything. Don’t forget to use free or low-cost resources like your local community center and public library. If summer (or the summer slide) has you or your kiddo stressed or sad, contact one of our pediatricians for more resources. We’ve got this!